Use the three-part formula
Choose a night, choose a movie and choose one easy snack. Put phones in a basket if that helps everyone actually be together.
- Night: weekly, monthly or whenever the calendar allows
- Movie: rotate the chooser or draw from a short approved list
- Snack: popcorn, snack plates, frozen pizza or whatever is already easy
Avoid the choosing spiral
Give the chooser three pre-approved options. If nobody decides within five minutes, use the first option and press play.
Keep the memory, skip the production
Ask one question afterward: favorite part, funniest line or character you would invite to dinner. That tiny ending makes the night feel complete.